“You don’t ever have to tolerate people who treat you poorly.”
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them for or how nice they may have been to you in the past. you’re allowed to call people out on their abusing behavior. You’re allowed to set boundaries about what you are and arenot willing to tolerate.
Often when we think of boundaries, we think of how to keep what we don’t want, out.
I encourage you to reframe this definition and look at boundaries as a way to protect the good, and honor what’s sacred.
When you don’t have boundaries, you feel like you are constantly living in a “doormat” mentality.
Setting boundaries is a form of self-respect and self-love.
Boundaries are not a punishment for others, In short, setting a boundary is the ultimate act of self-care.