Your self reflection is the real image of you.
Self reflection is a way we communicate with ourselves, about ourselves. End of the day, you are only answerable to yourself, no one else.
When you take any action in life, only you know you real intent. People might judge your actions and results and might create an image of you in their minds. Many times this image is negative because they can’t understand your intent in life and most of the people like criticising more than appreciating. But this should never break you ever. How you see yourself is more important than how others see you.
As long as you see a true reflection of you, don’t let it bother you.
Always take time to assess yourself. Once you learn from your experience and Improve your self, you will see your self growth.